Are you stuck in an employment rut?

Arrghhhh, is it stress, menopause, anxiety, unemployment, or insomnia?

Waking up at 3am has become the new normal.

I completely understand what it's like to be trapped in a job rut, feeling powerless, hopeless, and, let's be honest, like a failure. I hear you!

Then you start questioning things like, is it my age? It can't be my experience, because I have plenty.

Although I understand that legally, companies cannot discriminate, I can't shake the feeling that perhaps I was being discriminated against.

I'm a 43-year-old woman and a single mother. As mentioned earlier, I have an impressive resume and skill set. Is it possible they're preferring men over me, younger candidates, or those who are less expensive and without children?

Has anyone else gone through this?

As you reach a certain age, has it become more challenging to find a job?

I feel like I'm going crazy with the recruitment process right now. It's like a full-time job.

Spending hours researching companies and roles, applying, interviewing, being ghosted, and facing rejection.

All the rejection begins to take a toll on your confidence.

You hear all sorts of advice from everyone, like "companies would be crazy not to hire you," "You'll find something soon," "just enjoy your time off." It makes me want to scream, even though I know they mean well.

You start questioning everything you know: Did I make the right choice? Does everything happen for a reason? Can I trust that the universe has something planned for me?

Experiences like this can truly undermine our confidence, which is why I developed "Confidently You," https://www.stellaproductions.com.au/coursesbuilt from experience, and put into my own personal practice.

Maybe it is time to take the leap of faith and think about what is is that you truly want, maybe it is time to start your own business, change careers, or level up.

Until next time,

Much love,

Mumma XOXO

Disclaimer:

I am not a licensed therapist, psychologist, or mental health professional. The information shared in this blog is based on personal experience, research, and general knowledge, and is intended for informational and supportive purposes only.

It should not be taken as professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment.